I don't often do just written posts - this is afterall, where I try to keep the family up-to-date on the kids, but I just have to rant for a bit about Facebook.
See, I don't have a Facebook account. Why am I only person without a Facebook account? Several reasons:
1) I can't access Facebook from work. I should be working, not on Facebook, correct? But still! I spend more awake time at work than I do at home. And I am allowed a couple of breaks a day but that is company policy. I read in the paper that a Mebourne Univeristy study said that people are more productive when they aren't denied access to stuff like that. Maybe because once the novelty wears off, it isn't such a big deal. Or they feel guilty and work harder to make up the time?
2) The time I have at home is already booked. We have practices three days a week. Then there is homework, reading, piano, piano practice, etc, etc. If there wasn't something with the kids, then there is laundry, dinner, dishes, more laundry, etc. And I am trying REALLY hard to put in 30 minutes a night on the ellipical.
3) I have to have 8 hours of sleep a night. Perferably more. If not, I get headaches and I don't feel good. I don't have time to not feel good!
When all of that is added up, there is very little time for Facebook. We have two computers and a laptop. Brad spends a lot of time on Facebook. I try to think nice thoughts and that he isn't putting off any important activities because of it, but I have a hard time with those charitable thoughts. Why? Because there is a DEAD FISH FLOATING IN THE FISH TANK!! He hasn't had the time to get to it but he has time to play Mafia Wars?!?!?!?!??!?!?
Wesley has a Facebook account. Brad set it up so that they could play chess with each other but of course it has grown from there. Brad had to lie about Wesley's age in order to get the account so it appears as if Wes is Jimmy's age. Brad didn't even notice. We only allow Wes to be friends with family members. He really enjoys chatting with them but we worried that he was bugging them so Brad found a child safe chat room called Kidz World. Wes just joined so I don't have an opinion about that yet. So, Wesley is on the boy's computer.
Trenton loves a website called FunBrain. He can set up the laptop and get there on his own. He is only allowed on that website and sits at the island in the kitchen where we can moderate his usage.
So if Brad is "working" (and work does have priority - he often has one or two reports that must be done that night) and I am moderating the boys - when do I have time to get on Facebook?
Don't get me wrong - it is not as if I don't get computer time in my own house. I post here don't I? But you will notice how frequent my updates are! I also check my email daily although sometimes I can do that from work if I set it up correctly. I also do the paperwork for the business on a weekly basis (try to anyway).
When I do paperwork for the business, I can't take any side trips and still concentrate and get it all done correctly. It is too easy to make a mistake. I have to start it, focus on it, and get it done.
I understand and appreciate the concept of convenience that Facebook offers. But part of me thinks it is hypocritical as well - if my "friends" didn't have or take the time to find me before Facebook, why is it such a big deal now? I like email, letters, cards. I sort of think that a Facebook "Happy Birthday" doesn't count as much as a "Happy Birthday" delivered any other way. It doesn't take much thought or effort to go the Facebook route after all. Sometimes "it is the thought that counts" isn't true. A fake or insulting thought is often worse than no thought.
So, I don't have the time for Facebook. Yea for those that do - that doesn't make me a Facebook snob. It just makes me a mom with priorities.